“Kukathas’ songs remind us that romance is not the end and that the things our brains try to convince us of late at night are not always what is true. Kukathas argues that loving people — whoever they are, in whatever ways they come into our lives — helps us through the bad days. You are never as unloveable as you fear you are, even when you, like Kukathas, struggle to find enough forgiveness to fall asleep.”